Hello Friends, Today I am going to tell you the importance attitude in our life. As We all know that there are lots of people who don’t know what is the meaning of attitude. (नमस्कार दोस्तों, आज मैं आपको हमारे जीवन में दृष्टिकोण का महत्व बताने जा रहा हूँ। जैसा कि हम सभी जानते हैं कि बहुत से ऐसे लोग हैं जो नहीं जानते कि दृष्टिकोण का अर्थ क्या है। ) { STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE }
What is the meaning of Attitude?
Attitude is the way you feel about something or someone, or a particular feeling or opinion. (दृष्टिकोण वह है जो आप किसी चीज या किसी व्यक्ति या किसी विशेष भावना या राय के बारे में महसूस करते हैं)
हम किसी भी व्यक्ति , व्यक्ति की राय या वस्तु के बारे में क्या सोचते है वो हमारे attitude पर निर्भर करता है|
(सो दोस्तों जैसे की ऊपर मेने आपको समझाने की कोशिश की है की हमारे attitude से ही ये निर्भर होता है की हम किसी भी चीज़ के बारे में कैसा सोचते है तो चलिए समझते है Attitude कितने प्रकार का होता कुछ रियल लाइफ example के साथ)
My friends , as i tried to explain the importance of attitude in our life. Everything is depend on our attitude how we see other things. And how many types of attitude.
Types of Attitude with real life examples:-
- Positive Attitude (सकारात्मक दृष्टिकोण)
- Negative Attitude (नकारात्मक दृष्टिकोण)
Building a positive attitude
There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair. He had all colors of balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, “If you release a black balloon, would that also fly?” Moved by the boy’s concern,
the man replied with empathy, “Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up.”
तो दोस्तों में आपको एक realistic कहानी बताता हु एक मेले में एक आदमी गुब्बारे बेचा करता था अपना जीवन व्यतीत करने के लिए उसके पास हर कलर के लाल पिले नील गुलाबी गुब्बारे थे | और जब भी उसका व्यापार धीमा होता था तो वो एक गुब्बारा हीलियम गैस से भरा हुआ हवा में छोड़ देता था और जैसे ही उस गुब्बारे को बच्चे ऊपर जाता हुआ देखते थे तो उसकी बिक्री फिर तेज हो जाती थी एक बार एक बच्चा उसके पास आया और उससे कहा अंकल ये नीला गुब्बारा भी ऊपर जाएगा। तो उसने बहुत स्नेह से बच्चे से कहा बेटा ये गुब्बारे का कलर नहीं है जिसकी वजै से गुब्बारा ऊपर जाता है बल्कि वो है जो इसके अंदर है।
( यही बात हमारे जीवन पर लागू होती है। यह वह है जो मायने रखता है। हमारे अंदर की चीज जो हमें ऊपर ले जाती है, वह है हमारा रवैया। )
The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us that makes us go up is our attitude.
William James of Harvard University said, “The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.”
Someone once approached Blaise Pascal, the famous French philosopher and said, “If I had your brains, I would be a better person.” Pascal replied, “Be a better person and you will have my brains.”
The Calgary Tower stands at 190.8 meters. The total weight of the tower is 10,884 tons, of which 6,349 tons is below ground (approximately 60%). This shows that some of the greatest buildings have the strongest foundations. Just like a great building stands on a strong foundation, so does success. And the foundation of success is attitude.
A study attributed to Harvard University found that when a person gets a job, 85% of the time it is because of their attitude, and only 15% of the time because of how smart they are and how many facts and figures they know
FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE ( STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE )
There are primarily three factors that determine our attitude. They are:
- Environment
- Experience
- Education (These are called the triple Es of attitude.)
Environment
Environment consists of the following:
• Home: positive or negative influences
• School: peer pressure
• Work: supportive or over critical supervisor
• Media: television, newspapers, magazines, radio, movies
• Cultural background
• Religious background
• Traditions and beliefs
• Social environment
• Political environment
Experiences :- Our behavior changes according to our experiences with people and events in our life. If we have a positive experience with a person, our attitude toward him becomes positive and vice versa.
Education :-I refer to both formal and informal education, not just academic qualifications. Knowledge strategically applied translates into wisdom, ensuring success. I talk of education in the broader sense. It makes the role of the ; educator vital. A teacher affects eternity. The ripple effect is immeasurable. We are drowning in information but starving for knowledge and wisdom. Education ought to teach us not only how to make a living but also how to live.
THE BENEFITS OF A POSITIVE ATTITUDE ( STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE )
• increases productivity
• fosters teamwork
• solves problems
• improves quality
• makes for congenial atmosphere
• breeds loyalty
• increases profits
• fosters better relationships with employers, employees, and customers
• reduces stress
• helps a person become a contributing member of society and an asset to their country
• makes for a pleasing personality
THE CONSEQUENCES OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
• bitterness
• resentment
• a purposeless life
• ill health
• high stress level for themselves and others
WHEN WE BECOME AWARE OF OUR NEGATIVE ATTITUDE, WHY DON’T WE CHANGE?
Human nature generally resists change. Change is uncomfortable. Regardless of its positive or negative effect, change can be stressful. Sometimes we get so comfortable with our negativity that even when the change is for the positive, we don’t want to accept it. We stay with the negative.
STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
Step 1: Change Focus, Look for the Positive
Step 2: Make a Habit of Doing It Now
Step 3: Develop an Attitude of Gratitude
Step 4: Get into a Continuous Education Program
Step 5: Build a Positive Self-Esteem
Step 6: Stay Away from Negative Influences
Step 7: Learn to Like the Things That Need to be Done
Step 8: Start Your Day with a Positive
WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS
• The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.
• The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.
• The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”;
The Loser says, “That is not my job.”
• The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
• The Winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible”;
The Loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult.”
• When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”;
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”
• A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.
• Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.
• Winners say, “I must do something”;
Losers say, “Something must be done.”
• Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.
• Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.
• Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.
• Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
• Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.
• Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.
• Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.
• Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
• Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
• Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;
Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”
• Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.
• Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.
BE A WINNER–ACTION STEPS
Let me close this chapter with the eight action steps discussed earlier:
- Be a good finder.
- Make a habit of doing it now.
- Develop an attitude of gratitude.
- Get into a continuous education program.
- Build positive self-esteem.
- Stay away from negative influences.
- Learn to like the things that need to be done.
- Start your day with a positive.
Reference of the Content You Can Win (Book)
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Mohd Sharif
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